Ask people you know what social media they use. For professional social networking, try LinkedIn. Once you have a nice picture and a cute or accurate name on your platform of choice, add friends freely.
Consider using separate phone numbers for different networks. For example, a personal cell phone and a work cell phone. If you’re interested in privacy, download an encrypted app like Signal.
For instance, if you’re in a Facebook group for Panda Habitat Conservation, and you always feel inspired by the jokes some man named Heinrich from Idaho posts, you can like his post, reply with a joke of your own, and then add him as a friend. Find message boards or online communities that focus on one of your interests. Post on the topic and share your knowledge. If someone on the message board has similar interests or can teach you something, then send them an email or a private message and get to know them.
Strive to be genuine in your interactions so you can find true common ground with others. On many platforms, you may post things and tag the people you think may be interested. Only do this on occasion, and try not to tag more than a few people—otherwise it won’t feel personal.
If you have to say no to an invitation, send an event-appropriate gift or card.
You will meet people who share your interests and do some good at the same time. Being active also shows that you care about something greater than yourself, which may help you meet new people.
Try going to the same gatherings every year. That way, you’ll make friends with other regulars. Create business cards that you can hand out to new contacts to stay in touch.
Consider starting your own activist, social, or artistic group. This can be a bit of a daunting task, but if you start your own group, whether an internet bulletin board group or an actual meet and greet group, people will be coming to you instead of you looking for them. This is a great way to meet new contacts and friends.
